| 					   THE SUN AND DIGNITY by Rachel Elie an Benedict Elie Copyright © 2012 All Rights Reserved 
							 								          Everyone seeks dignity, consciously or
								              unconsciously. This value is of
								          great importance to us all. In our personal lives and in our
								          social circles, we
								              strive to show to others that we
								          are worthy of respect. Hence, dignity is synonymous with pride.
								          We are proud of
								              ourselves, of who we are and of
								          what we seek to achieve. We want to be loved and respected
								          and we wish to behave
								              with grace and dignity (at least,
								          most of the time).  We appreciate the approval of others and when they honour us. Receiving
									    some sort of honour, a worthwhile gratification or a carefully thought-out,
									    fair and fitting compliment fills us with joy and builds our self-confidence. Even if dignity has been lost at some point, it can usually be
									    reclaimed. We can regain our self-control and strength and reflect
									    on our past actions to behave better in the future. By reclaiming
									    our dignity, we can better accept and love ourselves. Most of us
									    love what is beautiful and good. In this respect, to love ourselves
									    even in the slightest way, we must look inward and see what makes
									    us feel beautiful and look beautiful to others. How can we appreciate
									    and love ourselves if we consider ourselves to be nothing less than
									    rejects, or unworthy of love? As you most probably know, the Sun is a bright star enabling life
									    to thrive on our planet. The Sun is a source of heat, light and
									    brightness. It inspires nobleness of the heart, good health, individual
									    radiance and dignity. When the Sun crosses a specific zodiac sign,
									    a person born under that sign is said to be naturally influenced
									    by the symbol of the sign.  In this article, we propose an analysis of dignity
									      considering the symbol of the Sun in
									      the zodiac. Our purpose was to illustrate
									    the lessons of the zodiac with respect
									      to dignity. These lessons are appropriate
									      for everyone, regardless of one’s zodiac sign.
									    More precisely, we will examine twelve
									      essential components of dignity in
									      relation to the twelve signs of the zodiac as they are crossed
									    by the Sun. 								        The Sign of Aries Aries is the first sign of the zodiac. Individuals born under the
									    influence of this sign like to forge ahead in life. They are not
									    afraid of the obstacles they must overcome; on the contrary, they
									    enjoy challenges. In ancient times, battering rams were actually war machines used
									    to break down doors or stone walls. By analogy, individuals born
									    under the sign of Aries enjoy charging ahead in life. The Sun in Aries invites us to assert our individual dignity. We
									    must not be wary of showing our worthiness. We must not hesitate
									    to behave with dignity, but quite the opposite: we must clearly
									    show this value in our every action. From the astrological viewpoint, the Sun, a star of light, brightness,
									    grace and radiance, is exalted under the sign of Aries. It shines
									    with all its force in this first sign of the zodiac. The same goes for us; we should shine with all our strength as
									    we go about our lives and show ourselves as highly worthy and noble
									    in everything we undertake. In short, Aries is a sign of fire; it has drive
									      and it is undertaking, energetic and bold. The Sun in this sign
									      invites us to express our
									    love for life and our dignity in every
								      aspect of our lives                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        							          The Sign of Taurus The sign of Taurus is partly associated with money. In fact, this
									    sign is related to the goods that we accumulate or the money that
									    we save to earn interest. Individuals born under this sign are indeed
									    good fortune builders. Their investments are quite profitable. Pure
									    luck is with them when they invest in real estate (houses, apartment
									    buildings, etc.). Fortune provides financial independence and puts an end to material
									    concerns. Ideally, fortunes are built gradually over time and through
									    sound investment. We are invited to invest our savings wisely in sustainable goods
									    whose value increases over time. In doing so, we can build a solid
									    fortune for ourselves and be successful, at least at the financial
									    level. Financial problems are a major concern for everyone. In this regard,
									    it is better to plan the financial aspect of our lives well in advance
									    if we are to safeguard our dignity in this field and exercise unwavering
									    judgment when it comes to the way we spend our money. Venus is a planet at home in the sign of Taurus. Venus symbolizes
									    beauty and beautiful things. Nothing is better than immersing ourselves
									    in an appealing environment to appreciate life, shine with joy and
									    love ourselves with respect and dignity. The Sign of Gemini Everyone agrees that communication, verbal or written, is an important
									    element of self-expression allowing us to express our personality,
									    our feelings and our entire being. Mercury, the planet that governs
									    the sign of Gemini, presides over communication with others. We are all immersed in a world where communications are omnipresent
									    and very important. In this respect, dignity is synonymous with
									    clarity. To be understood and loved, we must express ourselves simply,
									    and above all clearly. Silence, as such, can be painful, unhealthy or haunting. We should
									    not miss any opportunity to express ourselves, especially when the
									    time is appropriate to do so. Nothing is better than good timing
									    to talk about projects or ideas that are fitting. We can all improve our interpersonal communication
									      skills. We need only to increase the
									      capacity of our brain and our neurons as much
									    as possible. By doing so, we can better
									      understand messages received and express
									      ourselves fully in confidence and complete dignity in
									    order to enhance ourselves and the people
									      around us. In this respect, it is better
									      to “talk than to fight”.
									      Consequently, we manage to clear matters
									      up, convey our needs better and solve
									    a host of problems by talking with one
									      another. In short, we should not hesitate to maintain good human relations
									    and sound communication with the people around us in order to enhance
									    the quality of life and the dignity of everyone involved. The Sign of Cancer Cancer is actually the sign of home, family and children. Cancer
									    symbolizes affection, fertility and the Mother, while the Sun is
									    a symbol of authority and radiance. The zodiac teaches us that children
									    seek and genuinely need quiet authority at home within the family.
									    Hence, parents should make sure that their children feel safe at
									    home. Authority and safety should go hand in hand within the family.
									    It is relatively easy to ensure the safety of our children when
									    we love them. Parents are invited to be relatively open and understanding
									      towards their children. Parental authority
									      is based on the respect of children
									    and is aimed at their welfare above all
									      else. Fathers and mothers are considered
									      as helping individuals. They are parties to the achievement
									    of their children’s dreams and aspirations, ideally in a peaceful,
									    serene, pleasant and fulfilling setting.
									    As a result, children are likely to feel
									    comfortable within their family. A loving environment
									    encourages children to develop and evolve
									    harmoniously. Hence, children feel safe
									    to develop their early abilities and self-confidence through
									    their first experiences. Like adults, children become increasingly aware of their individual
									    radiance. Their emotions and sensitivity are enriched by a growing
									    confidence in their abilities. Hence, a sound relationship of trust
									    between children and parents is important. Children having reached adolescence still need their
									      parents and the model that they inspire
									      to better overcome the obstacles that
									    cross their path. Among the many aspects
									      of their lives, children will need
									      to draw inspiration from their parents’ attitude
									    when discovering the joys and pains of
									      love. Children forge their sense of individual dignity throughout their
									    childhood and adolescence. The Sign of Leo Love, respect and dignity go hand in hand. In this regard, the
									    sign of Leo represents the most beautiful and most noble feeling
									    that humans can experience: love. Authors have written abundantly
									    about the feeling of love in songs, poems, plays, films and novels.
									    This topic is an inexhaustible source of inspiration! Suffice it to say, love needs an appropriate setting to thrive.
									    A great deal of dignity, mutual respect, inner beauty, honesty,
									    interest, mutual attraction, availability and time is needed for
									    love to last. Like the sign of Leo, strength of character, individual
									      will and fervour of love should be
									      at play. As the saying goes, “nothing
									    comes easy”. Such noble feelings evoked should be genuinely
									    felt and maintained by the two people
									    involved. Otherwise, love tends to wither
									    away slowly. Passion must constantly be rekindled! As Leo the king of animals loves to rule, love as such is a ruling
									    feeling. It takes control of our entire being, overwhelms us and
									    requires self-control. Love and creativity also go hand in hand. Once in love, a couple
									    might decide to create their own home and have children to invest
									    in a family. Love is obviously a source of individual radiance, dignity and
									    fulfillment. Love enables us to give our very best, aim at excellence
									    in everything we do and fully enjoy life in all its magnificence.
									    To achieve these noble goals, we should be demanding and ambitious,
									    yet patient. In this regard, we should aim high, far and accurately! The Sign of Virgo The sign of Virgo symbolizes purity and whiteness and everything
									    that is clean, neat and flawless, like a white wedding dress. The
									    sign of Virgo represents what is spotless. To achieve this level
									    of purity, one must pay close attention to detail and show a great
									    deal of discernment. In short, one must aim for excellence. The
									    same goes for dignity: we must often strive to be perfectly worthy,
									    pure and neat down to the last detail. This requires attention,
									    concentration and meticulousness. Come to think of it, efforts are certainly needed to keep a garment
									    white, clean and spotless in order to wear it. The same goes for
									    dignity; once asserted, we must work hard to maintain it. Like a
									    soiled garment, our reputation and individual image can be smeared.
									    We must constantly correct our mistakes, re-establish facts and
									    convince the people around us. At times, we even have to defend ourselves to preserve
									      what we have gained. In this regard,
									      we should “strike telling blows” as
									    the saying goes. Paying close attention
									      to detail is essential to face criticism
									      and objection properly and resolve misunderstandings.
									    We also need a good sense of rigour to
									      solve our problems convincingly, efficiently
									      and permanently. Virgo is an earth sign. Instead of losing ourselves in idle talk,
									    we should uphold our honour, dignity and reputation through concrete
									    words or down-to-earth images. Nothing is better than being properly
									    understood unequivocally, clearly and precisely! The Sign of Libra This sign symbolizes the couple, the life partner or the business
									    partner. The Sun in Libra incites us to fulfill our potential
									      in cooperation with the people around
									      us. As much as the Sun in Aries represents
									    the aspirations of “the self”, the Sun in Libra, as
									    the opposite sign, represents the achievement
									    of goals with the help and cooperation
									    of others. As the saying goes, “Man is not meant to live alone”.
									    Man must fit into a world where others
									      take all the place that suits them
									      and to which they are entitled. In short, this sign helps us
									    to understand that we need others to
									      achieve our projects. Our relationship with others should be maintained with dignity
									    and respect for them and their values, concerns and goals. This
									    reflects the importance of wisely choosing our partners, the people
									    with whom we deal and those who are ready to help us and grow with
									    us. Saturn is exalted under the sign of Libra. The planet is perfectly
									    at ease in this sign. Saturn represents the serious, sometimes constraining
									    aspect of associations and contracts involving two or more people.
									    Hence, we should take the time to understand our mutual commitments
									    and the links binding us under contract; otherwise, legal recourse
									    is always possible. In this regard, the sign of Libra also symbolizes
									    justice, as well as peace and harmony. When reflecting upon this,
									    we realize that the purpose of legal action is to re-establish the
									    dignity of one of the parties who feels wronged through a particular
									    agreement, contract or event. As the pans of a scale swing with the addition of the slightest
									    weight, we are sensitive to the slightest injustice whether revealed
									    by the media or during conversations with our relatives, at which
									    time our individual dignity is challenged. Hence, we seek solutions
									    to solve the problems it raises. In doing so, we certainly have
									    the opportunity to share some of our time or our goods, or to give
									    useful advice for the sake of altruism. Nothing is better than putting
									    generosity, leadership, creativity and enthusiasm at the service
									    of the people around us. The Sign of Scorpio This sign symbolizes everything closely or remotely related to
									    sex, such as ova, sperm cells, reproductive organs and the intimate
									    relationship between two individuals. In areas such as this, human
									    beings are encouraged to behave with dignity and better themselves.
									    Passion undoubtedly rules in this area, but we must nonetheless
									    exercise self-control by controlling our emotions and impulses,
									    at least up to a certain point, in order not to be overwhelmed and
									    not to behave inappropriately. Naturally, this is easy to say, but
									    hard to do when passion sometimes leads us astray and off the beaten
									    path or makes us lose control. To experience such wonderful pleasures, many people
									      are ready to move heaven and earth
									      with great craft and subtlety, while hiding
									    their real intent… enough to lose their dignity! Naturally, it is always pleasant to show ourselves in our best
									    light to the person we desire in order to offer an appetizing fruit
									    to the beloved and to be out hunting for love. However, elementary
									    rules such as good taste, decorum and ethics should be respected.
									    We must behave with dignity to make sure that we do not regret approaches
									    used, acts committed and, last but not least, false or broken promises. In any situation such as this one, we should think
									      about the consequences of our actions
									      by taking our responsibilities to heart and behaving
									    honourably and with dignity. Hence, faithfulness
									      in love readily becomes an issue to
									      be debated: What happens after the “divine
									    kiss”? What comes next in this new relationship? How will
									    it end? Will it be faithful, exclusive
									    love or just another prey later to be
									    let down? In short, although appetites are voracious, intense and powerful
									    in this area, we need to reflect before engaging in any sexual activity
									    if we are to behave ethically and with dignity. The Sign of Sagittarius This sign is associated with philosophy, religion and spirituality.
									    It is often represented by an arrow shot far into the air and to
									    great heights. This sign refers to the higher spheres of human thought
									    and it is conducive to discussions on philosophy and ethics. Overall,
									    the sign of Sagittarius represents the search for dignity from every
									    aspect for both man and woman. Generally speaking, freedom is valued highly by Sagittarians. They
									    do not appreciate being told constantly what to do and how to behave
									    down to the last detail. Individuals born under this sign relish
									    their freedom and autonomy. Through this zodiac sign, there is an important lesson to be learned.
									    To maintain personal dignity, self-esteem, self-confidence and joy
									    in life, one should avoid being the captive of principles when they
									    are exaggerated, inadequate or irrelevant. Not only should this
									    captivity be avoided as such, but imposing overly stringent limitations
									    and exaggerated constraints on ourselves and others should also
									    be avoided. In short, we need the open air to breathe comfortably
									    and open spaces to evolve at our leisure. There can be no dignity in human behaviour as such
									      without considering one’s joy in life. We should fulfill
									      ourselves completely and live in joy
									      and happiness if we are to easily preserve our dignity.
									    We should develop our talents and creativity
									      and see our possibilities through.
									      Setting personal challenges and having projects close to
									    the heart is important. We should live
									      the moment intensely, while anticipating
									      wonderful moments to come! It is in this climate of personal joy, happiness, freedom, generosity,
									    pleasure and radiance that dignity finds its best expression, within
									    our hearts and in our relationships with others. The Sign of Capricorn In general, an individual’s radiance is based
									      on a preparatory thinking process.
									      To achieve our objectives, we must first determine
									    what arouses our interest most. In addition,
									      we have to determine the time and energy
									      needed to do so, without overlooking the proper
									    strategy to adopt in order to achieve
									      our projects. In this area, preparatory
									      reflection is a relatively slow process. Nothing should
									    be rushed. We should proceed at our own
									      pace as we try to see clearly within
									      ourselves. Self-actualization requires that we first know
									    ourselves. Dignity thrives when this
									      process is conducted with respect for
									      the self and for the others around us.  In other words, the goals that we pursue and the objectives that
									    we set for ourselves should be noble, rewarding and interesting
									    for ourselves and the community. They should be worth achieving,
									    and we should seek to achieve nothing less than interesting projects. To achieve complete self-actualization in society, we should aim
									    high, hope to reach unparalleled heights and try to make the most
									    of our abilities. In this lies the promise of a successful life
									    and career. For self-actualization to last, it must only occur through
									    honesty, grace and dignity. Naturally, climbing the social ladder entails effort, even sacrifice.
									    Indeed, the time and financial means at our disposal are limited.
									    We have to plan the appropriate actions to undertake and be persistent
									    and determined to bring projects to successful completion at reasonable
									    cost. Luckily, benefits are there to reward us for having achieved
									    our goals. Lastly, it should be emphasized that in order to achieve
									    a project, others must be set aside. In short, we must be highly
									    selective in this area. We cannot bring too many projects to a favourable
									    completion at once for want of enough time, money or energy. Considering that we are human beings, we are certainly entitled
									    to devise a host of projects in our minds. However, we should establish
									    our priorities and undertake only the projects that will allow us
									    to better fulfill ourselves and share the benefits with others. The Sign of Aquarius Aquarius is an altruistic sign. It symbolizes friends, among other
									    aspects. Friends should be chosen carefully because we may spend
									    a great deal of time with them. We may also invest ourselves significantly
									    in our social life. We generally enjoy good times with our friends.
									    They are often a source of joy, enjoyment and the small pleasures
									    in life. They even provide us with sound, useful advice. This is
									    why they have to be chosen wisely. Their advice is often quite valuable because they
									      are somewhat disinterested, particularly
									      when advice is given freely. Good friends
									    do not expect to receive money or anything
									      else in return for their help or advice.
									      Their advice is all the more valuable because they
									    know us well. At times, they know us
									      even better than we know ourselves.
									      They have a relatively objective view of us, which can help a
									      great
									    deal along life’s path. Nothing is better than good, unbiased,
									    right, useful, beneficial and relevant
									    advice, particularly when really needed! Therefore, it is imperative to choose friends properly. They must
									    be worthy of our interest and the time that we devote to them. It is relatively easy to choose good friends when, in our heart,
									    we believe that we are entitled to rub shoulders with worthy, positive
									    and radiant people who are full of joy and happiness. In fact, we are entirely free to choose the friends we like, just
									    as they are free to choose us as friends. Follow interesting relationships
									    based on common tastes or converging interests. Such relationships
									    are also based on free, personal choices. Freedom requires that
									    we believe ourselves worthy of joining friends and, in return, we
									    should require from our friends that they also be worthy of rubbing
									    shoulders with us. We hope that you spend wonderful times and precious moments with
									    your friends in good spirits while experiencing joy for life! The Sign of Pisces Pisces is a water sign. It represents the sea as a vast expanse
									    of water. Oceans cover the largest surface area of our planet. The
									    expanse of water is almost infinite, at least at the human scale.
									    Being alone out on the ocean provides a unique opportunity to reflect
									    and meditate, since the sea stretches towards the horizon in every
									    direction. In such a setting, the sea may be seen as far as the
									    eye can gaze in all directions. Then when we look up, we see the
									    sky as far as the eye can see. We find ourselves at the centre of
									    an infinite space stretching in every direction, both up and down. This privileged situation fosters an intimate contact with nature
									    and the cosmos. This contact is also conducive to self-awareness.
									    It provides the perfect opportunity for practising meditation. Through meditation, we become aware that we were created with a
									    brain, intelligence and a soul with which to appreciate the universe.
									    Hence, we become aware of the greatness of our thoughts and appreciate
									    the universe offered. Meditation is experienced in dignity. We realize that we are practically
									    alone in the world to appreciate the power of our thoughts and the
									    scope of our universe. Through our entire being, we become aware
									    that human beings shine as the Sun in this universe. Naturally, we do not necessarily need to go to such
									      lengths as travelling to the middle of an ocean to admire the
									      cosmos, to meditate
									    on our existence or to clear our mind.
									      One need only lay down on a bed at night with the lights off and
									      in relative silence. Nothing
									    is better to rid our mind of all sorts
									      of disturbing, irritating or unpleasant emotions. By freeing our
									      mind of bad impressions or
									    memories, we can start anew, recharge
									      our batteries and feel renewed in order to pursue our journey
									      under better conditions. Indeed,
									    when we listen to ourselves in a relatively
									      calm setting, bad emotions free themselves from the brain and
									      can be replaced with positive
									    thoughts. Then, we can find appropriate
									      solutions to our problems.  We become less emotional, calmer and more serene.
									        As a result, our self-confidence is enhanced. We understand better
									        what we are
									      experiencing and what is going on around
									        us. May you enjoy rejuvenating meditation! In short, we certainly have a vested interest in achieving self-actualization
									    and in considering ourselves as worthy individuals in a wide range
									    of areas. We should consider ourselves worthy of shining like the
									    Sun.   | 
				
			  
			
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