SELF-COACHING by Benedict Elie In cooperation with Mrs. France Lévesque Copyright © 2008 All Rights Reserved
We all know the names
of some coaches involved in sports, such as football, hockey and
baseball. When a team wins a game, its coach reaps all the honours.
But when a team loses, the coach risks losing his/her job. This
goes to say how important it is for a team to be trained by a good
coach who will help them achieve victory and reach the highest levels.
A coach may be in charge of training an entire team or a single
athlete towards achieving their goals. In this regard, learning more about the path to your own destiny
from an astrological viewpoint with a complete, clear and precise
report is certainly a good way to start when you want to know how
to achieve your own goals. In other words, a proper, precise and
complete astrological report can serve as the foundation to practically
effortless self-coaching. However, it must be pointed out that reflecting
on oneself is necessary. A self-coaching method, based mainly on one’s natal astrological
chart or, if you prefer, one’s detailed astrological report,
is proposed in this article. A “coaching sheet” is appended
to this article for you to complete by
referring to the example provided. COACHING: A STRATEGIC ACTIVITY As pointed out earlier, we are all aware of the importance of a
good coach. But there is more. When you think about it, the goal
in life is to become as self-sufficient as possible over time. To
succeed in doing so, self-coaching is therefore essential. This
activity is strategic: self-coaching is precisely
what should be done at first. To be self-sufficient, one must
know oneself,
set one’s goals and objectives, and plan reasonable timeframes
to achieve them. There is nothing like careful, strategic planning to sort out our
goals and objectives. In the next few pages, an example of strategic
planning is presented, including: In
short, this is an excellent tool to put one’s affairs
and life in order. This example of strategic planning is based on
the life experience and natal astrological chart of Mrs. France
Lévesque. Recurrent
Projects: “I was born under the sign of Virgo. One of
my greatest joys in life is to always be of service to people
around me. More precisely,
I try to perform at least one small service
for someone every day. I am visually impaired; in other words, I am blind.
However, I can easily get a sense of people’s needs. But above all, I
like to perform small services for them, improve their life condition,
assist them and lend them a hand. My ability to perceive is all
the more enhanced by the fact that the Moon is located in the sign
of Cancer in my natal chart. I sense people’s emotions relatively
fast. Often, only a few words are enough
for me to understand what is on their minds. To feel good about myself and be happy, I really need to communicate
with people at least once a day, by telephone or otherwise. Although I think that I may seem somewhat detached, I have great
interest in the human condition, small joys, concerns and well-being
of the people around me. I give them my full attention. Lastly, my Sun in the sign of Virgo makes me curious by nature.
I would even say that I want to know everything about my friends.
I can easily imagine what I would do in their place and, with the
greatest of pleasure, I sometimes allow myself to give them some
useful advice while emphasizing that they must make decisions on
their own. On the whole, I enjoy performing small services
in a recurrent, ongoing and daily basis. First, I listen to what
my friends have
to tell me and, after having considered
their issues from all angles whenever possible, I convey my comments,
opinion and impressions
to them. People appreciate my input and,
in turn, it makes me feel good and brings a lot of joy to my life
[ …].” Short-term
Projects: “Venus, the planet of love, is located in
the sign of Libra in my natal astrological chart. Strangely enough,
one of my good
friends was born under the sign of Libra,
and we both have Mercury in the sign of Libra in our natal charts. Since human communications are governed by Mercury, it goes without
saying that we get along quite well, whether during our telephone
conversations or when we are travelling together. My friend thinks
that I am a very attractive person and he really likes to share
his feelings, ideas and projects with me. On the short term, I hope that I will get to know
him better and continue to maintain a very good, friendly relationship
with him
[…].” Medium-term
Projects: “Jupiter in Sagittarius in my natal astrological chart inspires
a lot of enthusiasm and optimism in me. I try to always be positive
in all respects. To nurture this enthusiasm and love of life, I
enjoy reading philosophical works on spirituality or novels on psychology.
On the medium term, I would like to enhance my knowledge of these
topics by addressing important and challenging issues in my life
and the lives of others […].” Long-term Projects “I want people who know me well to see me
as a courageous, persevering and determined woman, if not audacious
at times. Throughout
my life, I have made efforts to become
such a woman. This perception is very important to me and I would
like it to take shape in several
ways. First and foremost, feeling good about myself has always driven
my decisions. I spend a lot of energy to eliminate, definitely whenever
possible, any barrier that come my way. I do not like to solve a
problem more than once. On the contrary, when I have a problem,
I really want to solve it completely. Every day, morning, noon and
evening, I like to walk with my guide dog. I show everyone that
I am self-sufficient. I always take the time needed to achieve my objectives,
even if things progress sometimes rather slowly. In my natal astrological
chart, Saturn is actually located in
the sign of Capricorn, which
reinforces my determination and perseverance.
Moreover, Mercury is located in the sign of Libra, which helps
me to voice my thoughts,
feelings and impressions. In this regard,
one day I would really like to publish my personal views on life
for the benefit of the
general public. This is one of my strongest
wishes [ …].” A coaching
sheet that you may complete yourself: May you enjoy
productive times of reflection
on this topic, directly related
to your life, objectives and
projects. There is nothing
like knowing what we want to do in
life and reaping all the benefits
that result from this process! The best of luck to you in your projects! ~
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Created, Thursday, July
3, 2008 14:09