Chapter 1: Enjoyment, Closeness and Lasting Impressions
This section is based on the idea that there are three
basic needs in every relationship:
* Interest,
energy and stimulation or sexuality.
* Enjoyment, abundance, expansion of awareness
and happiness.
* Patterns for commitment, consistency, teaching
each other or reaffirming something essential one for
the other and vice versa.
The sort between your charts is for eleven separate
aspects that define energy, fun and lasting impressions
between you. Most strong relationships have at least
four to six of these aspects between their charts.
Bill's Sun Sextile Hillary Rodham's Asc.:
This
aspect facilitates self-expression and social interaction
between the two of you. You are together because you
genuinely enjoy each other’s style and life direction.
This aspect enhances the development of the personality
and encourages a greater ease in expressing who you are
in relation to another person. The purpose of this aspect
is to enable and encourage the development of personal
expression and self-understanding. It is an aspect of
enhancement and generosity. It develops and supports
a fondness for similar attitudes and attributes, sharing
common interests and feelings of happiness in each other's
company. Essentially, this aspect is one of recognition
and appreciation of each other’s unique personal
abilities. You feel support from your partner to be who
you are.
Hillary Rodham's Moon Trine Bill's Saturn:
The
intention behind this aspect is building strong, lasting
foundations and developing and maintaining emotional
and material security. Mutual support for and commitment
to the rules you’ve agreed to for your relationship
will be easier to keep and are valuable to both of you.
There is a natural tolerance for the inevitable problems
of life and a decided lack of whining. Resolving issues
and finding solutions together will become a core talent.
Just be sure you don’t make more problems for yourselves
because you’re so good at dealing with them or
take on more responsibility than you ought. Others will
find you a dependable pair and will look up to you and
respect you. It would be easy for you, as a team, to
take a leadership role of some kind in the community,
since organization, reliability and planning are natural
talents for you. This aspect contributes to longevity
because the inclination to build a solid relationship
is inherent in the combination. There is a greater chance
of permanence for all your endeavors together because
of the time, care and attention you put into them. With
your skills of maintenance and self-improvement, you
will accomplish much to ensure the longevity of your
bond.
Bill's Moon Square Hillary Rodham's Saturn:
This
aspect is a binding one but has its share of struggles.
The bond is one of a perceived (or real) responsibility
toward each other. The two of you will have challenges
and obstacles to overcome and obligations to shoulder.
In fact, obstacles or burdens may prevent you from culminating
your relationship long term or they can make your relationship
stronger, as you face them together. Some of the struggles
this aspect draws concern the balance or relationship
between your past history, your families or divergent
career and domestic needs. You could have different feelings
or definitions about the roles each of you should assume
within the structure of your relationship. Faithfully
seeking to determine what the most important priorities
are between the two of you will help you separate the
real issues from non-essential ones. Sometimes what initially
appears to be an issue is, upon deeper scrutiny, a non-issue.
Trust and responsibility are key factors in the success
or failure of your relationship. The main purpose of
this energy pattern between you is to help you develop
a greater understanding of trustworthiness and
reliability, exactly what that means, and where and how
these concepts fit into your relationship life together.
Bill's Sun Conj Hillary Rodham's Saturn:
You have come together to produce something lasting
such as a project, a business or even a child. Your life
together has a sobering quality and will demand responsibility
and commitment on some important levels. There is an
intrinsic level of commitment that becomes self-evident
over the course of your relationship with each other
and it may have been there right from the start. These
feelings of an obligation or something you owe to the
other are what bind you to your partner on a deep level.
Your promises to each other will not be easily broken
and often last a lifetime. If there is a change, you
will each feel the seriousness of the breach and the
important role of the relationship in your life. Achievement
on some level of your own choosing will run like a thread
through the fabric of your partnership, although each
of you in your own way may rebel at the imposition of
responsibility or the burdens you feel as a result of
this energy you have chosen to express together. Development
of responsibility, trust and a foundation of strength
on an inner or outer level will be the harvest of your
joining. Time and timing will be a core theme in your
relationship. You may at times feel tested in your character
and understand that you are meant to learn an important
lesson together. Security, mutual respect and integrity
are values demanding your attention and evolvement within
your relationship.
Hillary Rodham's Sun Square Bill's Saturn:
There
is a serious quality in your relationship and a strong
bond with each other. You may feel obligated
toward each other or there could be obstacles making
it difficult for you to be together. It is important
for you to determine the level of commitment and responsibility
you are willing to make. There are bound to be some obstacles
for you to overcome in your life together. You may find
the challenges strengthening to your bond with each other
or they may prove to be burdensome. You have chosen this
level of relating in order to develop endurance, integrity
or to build something lasting together. This aspect tests
your sense of integrity and right and wrong. Either one
of you may resist these forces and choose not to take
on the challenge but if you do, you will be stronger
for it. This aspect requires a level of maturity and
acceptance of certain responsibilities. No wimps need
apply. If you focus only on the difficulties between
you they will loom larger. If you focus on resolving your
problems with mutual respect, your relationship will
grow stronger and more stable over time. You have something
important to accomplish together. Whatever the developmental
level that you are able to reach, this relationship will
create an impact that will not soon be forgotten.
Bill's Sun Square Hillary Rodham's Jupiter:
In
your life together, you will feel compelled, sometimes
driven, to seek adventure, learning and travel experiences.
The impulse of the aspect is to exceed limitation and
to maintain the freedom to explore new experiences. These
desires can at times clash with the more stable requirements
of a relationship. If you can adventure together often
enough, the times when one of you wants to go it alone
may be tolerable. If not, this will be one of your issues.
Together, you will desire to challenge yourselves and
each other to reach new heights and test your abilities
to exceed expectations. It’s possible you will
engage in sports and physical activity in general, which
will alleviate the restlessness of this aspect. Above
all, you want variety and will resist boredom. Reckless
excessiveness is more of a pitfall with this aspect of
Jupiter between your charts. Grandiosity and ego-excesses
can get in the way of harmonious relationships with yourselves
or others. The choices you make will teach you wisdom
faster than you can believe is possible. You want to
live the good life but you may not have the resources
immediately at hand. Refrain from over-extending yourselves
unnecessarily either financially, physically, emotionally
or spiritually. Otherwise, your mutual goodwill could
erode into blaming each other for spending your resources
and feelings of being overwhelmed.
Bill's Moon Opp Hillary Rodham's Venus:
Although
there is a natural appreciation and liking of each
other, there will be times that you won’t
appreciate each other’s habits. Or possibly your
values are in conflict. Those will be difficult and frustrating
times. You may feel undervalued or misunderstood by your
partner. The affection is still there but you’ll
have to work on the breach or any damage to the self-esteem
of your partner. It’s important that you put effort
into cherishing the good qualities that each of you have,
even though they may be very different from your own.
When you are in conflict make sure you don’t disparage
your partner just because you don’t like their
choices. Be sure to give credit where and when it is
due. It’s easy to take the good graces and support
of your partner for granted but it does harm to the goodwill
of your relationship, long term. The purpose of this
aspect is to teach you cooperation, negotiation and compromise.
Chapter 2: Emotions and Communication Between You
These aspects detail the quality of the emotional connection
and basic comfort between the two of you and your ease
or difficulty in communicating, talking with each other
and simply understanding where each of you is coming
from. These aspects also describe how you reason together
and resolve issues or problems.
Bill's Moon in Taurus, and Hillary Rodham's is in Pisces:
You are each blessed with a natural, easygoing and similar
emotional style. You share some of the same rhythms and
habits that will make daily contact more comfortable
for each of you. Timing will not be as much of an issue,
in that you can more easily and quickly respond to each
other's emotional levels of excitement or energy and
empathize with each other's disappointments, in ways
that both of you feel met by the other. You can fire
each other up and cool each other down because you'll
frequently be riding the same emotional wave. You're
able to support each other when feelings overflow. Basically,
you both seek the same kinds of comforts and can relate
easily to each other's peculiarities. In fact, you can
accommodate your partner's idiosyncrasies with humor
and even turn them into jokes that become part of the
private fabric of your relationship life. If you share
living space, you are likely to have domestic tastes
that match easily. Environments that comfort and support
you are more often than not, shared by your partner.
Social connections and the types of people you choose
to interact with will be similar. And you will appreciate
the fact that you love the same interests and are able
to share and enjoy numerous different activities together.
This is not to say that at times you won't be totally
perplexed by each other's reactions because there are
other factors in each of your personalities that must
be considered. Also, if your upbringing is very different,
it will add to the emotional adjustments you will need
to make. Still, on the whole it seems easier for the
two of you to make these adjustments.
Bill's Mercury in Leo, and Hillary Rodham's is in Scorpio:
Although you are attracted to each other, there are
times when one of you will have great difficulty in figuring
out where the other is coming from and what she (or he)
is trying to tell you. Your styles of communication can
be very different. The premises upon which you base your
reasoning or the logic you use will often perplex your
partner. Especially if you have to decide on projects
or activities together, your differences can quickly
become an issue between you. Talking things through slowly,
step by step, will help each of you to understand how
the other arrived at his (or her) opinion or conclusion.
This will take patience but in the end will be worth
it. What's more, by taking the time to really understand
how your partner is thinking, you can not only learn
something important about your partner but also get a
different perspective yourself. You will also learn how
your communication affects others, since your partner
is probably not the only one who can't always understand
what you're trying to say or figure out your logic. You've
attracted this kind of relationship exactly for the purpose
of fine tuning your thought processes and becoming more
adept and flexible in the ways you have of communicating
with others. This will be doubly useful if you are in
a business that requires writing or regularly communicating
with others.
Chapter 3: Fulfilling Each Other's Partnerships Needs
These aspects explain how you meet each other's desires
and dreams in special partnerships and one-on-one relationships.
These aspects are based on what your natal chart describes
that you're looking for in any major relational interaction.
Hillary Rodham's Neptune Conj Bill's 7th house ruler,
Mars:
Your
effect on each other is subtle and not easily defined,
certainly not at first. There could be feelings of disorientation
or even confusion in each other’s presence. You
may receive or send mixed messages and not know how to
interpret each other’s signals. Excess shyness
or sensitivity could be the culprit. On the other hand,
it could simply be a matter of not wanting to make any
commitments and leave your options open. Whatever the
reason for indecision, this aspect is meant to force
you to face the consequences and pain stemming from a
pattern of indecisiveness. The intent of this aspect
is also to separate true intuition from avoidance or
blind spots you may have as you go about your life tasks.
This aspect can generate fantasies and dreams, and your
life can be richly decorated with the expressions of
your creativity. You can inspire each other’s dreams
and be understanding of each other’s feelings of
insecurity, especially around performance. Having a spiritual
practice or belief will help your relationship keep to
its course and keep your dreams blended with a workable
reality, without too many unpleasant diversions. The
arts, music or dancing can allow you to express what
may be difficult to put into words.
Bill's Sun Square Hillary Rodham's 7th house ruler,
Jupiter:
A
heightened joyousness and optimism is a central part
of your relationship. You have the capacity to make each
other very happy. Both of you will want an expansive, "good
life" filled with many choices and opportunities.
There is, however, a tendency to be overly enthusiastic,
exaggerate and be potentially careless with important
details. Large ideas and concepts will be more appealing
to you, so perhaps you should leave the important details
to others. Developing your major life goals will be an
overriding concern. There is a distinct expansiveness
and even a willingness to take risk for your interests.
The intent of this aspect is development and growth to
express fully your personality and creative individuality.
This development takes place through making wise choices
and exercising discrimination to determine the truly
positive experiences from those that are a waste of your
time. You can create opportunities because of the positive
attitude you express but avoid being opportunistic. Receiving
recognition for what you do best is important for your
long-term satisfaction. Continued learning and experiencing
of life through travel, sports other challenges is probably
a mainstay of your relationship.
Bill's Saturn Trine Hillary Rodham's 7th house ruler,
Jupiter:
You are a good match for each other because one of you
will curtail the excesses of the other and vice versa.
Although you may not always enjoy your partner raining
on your parade, over time you will see that there is
something to be said for caution or planning ahead. Taking
a second look at your quick impulsiveness can save you
a heap of trouble in the long run. Certainly, you will
have to negotiate when one of you feels too stifled by
the endless planning of the other. Having separate projects
will alleviate feeling restricted by the very different
style of your partner. Taking turns planning and managing
will also help. After a while, the two of you can get
a rhythm going which will give you the best of both worlds
-- opportunity and a plan to go along with it. One of
you will always challenge the practicality of any project
you pursue together, but this need not overshadow your
enjoyment. Instead, it can support the long-range successful
outcome of your endeavor. The intent of this aspect is
to teach you balance and tame any runaway unbridled enthusiasm.
It can also put some fun and spontaneity into a partner
who otherwise is overly cautious or fearful of taking
risks. You will need a commitment or contract that allows
a certain amount of freedom to develop on individual
paths and a healthy dose of adventure without constant
legislation.
Bill's 7th house cusp Trine Hillary Rodham's 7th house
ruler, Jupiter:
You
are joyful when you are together. You genuinely like
your partner’s energy and how you feel when
you are together. One could say that you tend to bring
out the best in each other. Enhancement, travel, learning,
all things that advance and expand seem more important,
as well as more likely, as a result of your partnership.
The intent of this aspect is to allow the full expression
of your personalities in the way you relate to each other,
so that there is no mistaking what you mean to each other
and how you influence each other. Your joyfulness and
enthusiasm cannot be contained and naturally spills over
to others who come into your circle. It will be difficult
to contain your energy and you will seek others who are
like-minded and want to explore the options and choices
that life has to offer. Sports, philosophical debate
or social banter can be some activities that stimulate
your interest and allow you to express your desire for
improvement as well as the ideas and opinions you’ve
cultivated. There is a tendency to grab for the gusto,
but taking your time with the important choices will
be in your best interest and save you negative experiences
and disappointments. Be sure to take days and not
minutes for those major life decisions and research fully
to get the most up-to-date information.
Chapter 4: Your Closest Contacts, Your Strongest Themes
This section interprets the closest connections between
your charts. The idea is that the closest ties explain
the major or central themes of your relationships and
the reason you have come together. The nature of these
aspects will also define the main activities, interests
and patterns that comprise your life together.
Notice that in this section each paragraph contains
both the easier expression of energies as well as the
more challenging ones. Both interpretations are included
because these close connections pertain to the central
learning curve of your relationship. Based on the premise
that the more exact the connection (also the closest
energetic contact) between your pair of planets, the
more psychologically significant the aspect will be for
each of you. This means that you are likely to be strongly
influenced by each other in the areas described. Because
of this, it will be useful to consider both the easier
and more challenging interpretations even though you
lead with one of them. You will, from time to time and
in various circumstances, probably exhibit some elements
of each group, both the easier expressions as well as
the more challenging ones. Another thing -- it's possible
with both types of aspects that you will have the same
challenges but simply respond or react to them in different
ways. The goal is to rise to the best possible expression
of each combination. This is the learning curve and this
bestows wisdom.
Bill's Venus Conj Hillary Rodham's Neptune:
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts,
your main relationship theme concerns sensitivity, compassion,
forgiveness and the power of the unseen through symbols
and imagination. There is a reverence and faith.
Challenging
aspects: The other side of this hypersensitivity is
the dislike of conflict, which can lead to various
avoidance, neglect or substance abuse behaviors. Learn
to trust your intuition to keep you from questionable
experiences. Although your feelings can be confused or
conflicted or you can be plagued by doubts, seek to speak
the truth in so far as you know it, to avoid giving your
partner the wrong signals. Deliberate untruthfulness
would be damaging to your long-term relationship.
Easier aspects: This aspect is gentle and hypersensitive.
Together you will express a natural sweetness, kindness
and caring for each other and the feelings of others.
You will be blessed with an ability to understand and
experience the special magic of life and a deeper understanding
of its mysteries if you are open to this. Faith and a
spiritual practice are important ingredients in your
lives. It's possible you inspire others through the arts
or through a service profession or community work.
Bill's Sun Sextile Hillary Rodham's Uranus (easier aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts,
your main relationship theme is to live an authentic,
truthful life and also one that is exciting or entertaining.
There is something unusual, original or creative in the
way you apply yourselves to life. You will value your
independence in thinking and lifestyle and you will seek
friendships with others of like mind or causes to support
with similar values.
Easier aspects: Your creative, fresh and individual
style is likely to earn you many friendships. People
enjoy that you say what you think and they like being
able to count on your honesty. Because you are far-sighted
and interested in the future, you will often be involved
in innovative and progressive projects. Human rights
and humanitarian, environmental concerns are also important
to you.
Challenging aspects: You are likely to have a somewhat
rebellious spirit and you attract controversy. In other
words, you can become, in your community or group, catalysts
for needed change. Sometimes your energy is too abrupt
or disruptive and will not get you what you want, because
others will be put off by your style. Learning to modify
your energies and consider others' sensibilities will
earn you more support. Sometimes there's good reason
to riot. Other times you're simply being disruptive.
You will have to determine when it's worthwhile breaking
the rules or creating a scene. Your life will not be
dull and, if you channel your energies responsibly, will
be very innovative and creative.
Hillary Rodham's Sun Square Bill's Saturn (challenging
aspect):
If this is the most exact aspect between your charts,
your main relationship theme is one of responsibility
and credibility. You will likely be ambitious to achieve
certain goals and work hard at self-improvement. Honing
your skills and talents in order to gain the respect
of your peers or community is important. With consistent
effort, you can become experts and leaders in your field
of endeavor.
Challenging
aspects: You are likely to have many
struggles in your life together and, perhaps, more responsibility
than most for children or parents or your careers. Although
your successes are often hard-won, you are unlikely to
give up, and your struggles can make you stronger. What's
important is that you refuse to become negative or cynical
if things take longer or are more difficult than you
wanted. Maintaining your integrity in the midst of adversity
will earn you the respect and trust of others, and with
time and persistence, you will reach your goals.
Easier
aspects: In your relationship, you will
seek security and stability for yourselves and anyone
or anything else under your care and protection. You
are organizers and will forge step-by-step plans to reach
your goals. Others will admire your persistence and discipline.
Because you enjoy being productive, or enjoy the benefits
of working, there are times when you'll overwork yourselves.
You will need to learn to balance your work time with
relaxed, fun times. Although you seem to attract responsibility,
it is also something you desire and you appear to handle
it well, most of the time.